Communication Is An Institution And Often Calls...

In the modern era everything is gradually shifting and the social dynamics are adjusting as a consequence of this change. Fundamental institutions are constantly revaluated and marriage is not immune. In this perspective a major attention needs to be given to the newlyweds in order to help them understanding this redefinition and to avoid what may lead them to divorce. Marriage is an institution and often calls responsibilities. Marriage has been widely investigated and newlyweds should be provide insight about the results of those researches. They need to know the mistakes they make so they can survive even the toughest of the moments. The investigations made on marriage pointed out the three most common â€Å"causes† cited by divorcee as the†¦show more content†¦Actually, communication experts say that a good communication is more about the body language. With facial expressions, gestures or postures it’s possible to clearly send a message such as lack of int erest, boredom, anger as well as happiness, attention etc. It’s obvious that good communication skills can help in business as well as in quotidian life. Dr. Gottman states that a good communication is quintessential for newlyweds. He claims that a bad communication is lethal to relationships and suggests that in order to improve the communication between the partners, it’s important to avoid negativity, criticism and closing gestures. Over 50% of the divorcee listed â€Å"lack of communication† as one of the main reasons that leads to divorce. It’s obvious that investing in good communication is a good choice when committing for life. Communication is a skill that has to be cultivated daily as good communication leads to a stable and solid relationship. A good communication includes listening (which is hearing while paying attention), keeping eye contact, showing interest and expressing ideas with no barriers or fears. Newlyweds instead tend to communica te badly or not at all. In fact they underestimate the power of paying attention to the conversation. When they communicate, they tend to be defensive, thinking that the partner is attacking them and they often use negative referring to their partners. Those that may look as naive mistakes in the